A Chuppah for Chelsea: The Kids are Marrying Out

by Vivien Orbach-Smith on August 2, 2010

It was a lavish New York wedding on a perfect summer’s eve, covered by the media with the fascination reserved for movie stars, moguls – and the offspring of a former President and the Secretary of State.  But the steady buzz surrounding last weekend’s union between Chelsea Clinton and her longtime beau, Marc Mezvinsky, has extended beyond hearts-and-flowers and Vera Wang dresses to a complex issue that impacts – and divides – many American families: interfaith marriage.

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A pregnant bride?

by Helen Oxenberg on August 2, 2010

Dear Answer Mom: I’m embarrassed and don’t know what to tell relatives and friends. My son, who’s only 26, got married in a big wedding 6 months ago because the bride wanted a big affair. Nobody knew the bride was pregnant. Now the baby was just born and some people are asking if the baby came early. What do I say? –Embarrassed Mom [click to continue…]


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The Favorite Child, part 2

August 2, 2010

Whether mom’s golden child or her black sheep, siblings who sense that their mother consistently favors or rejects one child over others are more likely to show depressive symptoms as middle-aged adults. –from a study on “parental favoritism”

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Weekly Reader 8.2.10

August 2, 2010

Parental Finance 101 More than 40 percent of parents still provide financial support to their 23- to 28-year-olds.  How do you know when to offer and help and when to cut off the cash flow. Financial expert  Beth Kobliner offered some advice in “Help Your Grown Child Without Going Broke.”   When to help (if [...]

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The Favorite Child

July 26, 2010

“You’re mom’s favorite!” How many times did your children throw that taunt at each other?  How many times were they right that you secretly harbored a favorite?   Maybe it was the “easy” child who took naps and did well in school and survived the teenage years relatively unscathed while another child careened from one difficulty [...]

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Weekly Reader 7.26.10

July 26, 2010

Warning on lithium cell batteries If swallowed, these tiny round batteries trigger a chemical reaction that can kill children. Citing a medical journal  report, a New York Times health blog post  reported that the ingestion of lithium cell batteries can burn a hole in a child’s esophagus as severely as drain opener. The batteries are found in talking books, [...]

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Why Some Parents Hate Parenting

July 19, 2010

What do you remember about the hands-on parenting years? (Yes, some of us are still hand’s on!)  The drudgery, the diapers, the fevers, the frustration of tiny tots and toddlers?  The arguments, the tensions, the policing of tweens and teens?  Or have the years smoothed away the rough spots and what you remember the most [...]

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Weekly Reader 7.19.10

July 19, 2010

ET: Text Home! The secret to staying in contact with your adult children is learning to text.  They won’t answer the phone but they will text you. When a 25-year-old is texting in a bar no one know it’s to his mom about Sunday dinner not a hot date.  Huffing ton Post writer Elizabeth Cunningham [...]

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Part II: Roots and Wings

July 12, 2010

Good parents give their children roots and wings. Roots to know where home is, wings to fly away and exercise what’s been taught them. — Jonas Salk Last week we ran part one of an interview with Dr. Carl Pickhardt about allowing our adult children to lead independent lives.  Dr. Pickhardt asserts that to adapt [...]

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Weekly Reader 7.12.10

July 12, 2010

What is the American Dream for our Adult Children?   The New York Times loves to track trends—sometimes real, sometime manufactured–for the sake of a story.  “The American Dream Is Elusive for New Generation” is the newspaper’s  latest contribution to the tsunami of articles on emerging adults.  It’s the woeful tale of a 2008 college [...]

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