Weekly Reader 2.8.10

February 7, 2010

The Club Sandwich Generation
 You’ve heard of  the sandwich generation but what about the club sandwich generation?  Those are  50- and 60-something moms “sandwiched” with aging parents, adult children and grandchildren. Sound familiar? Each group has its own needs, wants and demands and often leaves the mom in the middle, conflicted and guilty.
The emotional strife is [...]

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The Second Time Around: Buying a Car Seat

January 31, 2010

You need an engineering degree to select among the dizzying array of car seat models,  not to mention proper installation to follow the latest safety guidelines! 
Toy R Us:  It’s been more than a decade since I shopped this treasure trove.  Yet it was déjà vu as I stepped into a store last week: Barbie dolls, Legos, dinosaurs.  Much of [...]

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Weekly Reader 2.1.10

January 31, 2010

The Dating Dilemma
Single parents face a sticky issue when it comes to dating: the negative reaction of their adult children.  In “Senior Dating—Dealing With Adult Children,” the folks at eHarmony offer some advice.  One suggestion: have a heart-to heart conversation with the “kids”:
 Tell them that the love of children and/or grandchildren can’t satisfy a person [...]

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They Really Do Need Us, Study Proves!

January 24, 2010

Telephoning, texting, emailing, Skyping, visiting, shopping, sharing a meal,  vacationing together, running a 5K,  doing home repairs:  The ways that parents interact with their adult children range from the mundane to the magical.  A family studies professor examined those everyday interactions between parents and adult children and published a survey with some surprising results.
Purdue University Professor [...]

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Weekly Reader 1.25.10

January 24, 2010

 You’re under arrest for not leaving home
 In the U.S. we call them “boomerang kids.”  In Italy, the term is bamboccioni or “big babies”  for the 59 percent of adult children aged 18-34 who live at home.
Now an Italian official wants to push the bamboccioni out of the nest and proposed a new law to require [...]

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Why Is It My Fault?

January 17, 2010

If something goes wrong on vacation does the mom usually feel responsible?
It sounded like a great idea — a week in the sun with our college-age daughter.  We’d get a break from the routine in the city and the biting cold; she’d get a chance to recover from exams and catch up on her sleep.  [...]

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Weekly Reader 1.18.10

January 17, 2010

Tug of war
What happens when competing grandparents start to keep a tally of visits?
 In “Parents’ demands for visit just result in guilt trip” Washington Post columnist Carolyn Hax suggests that when grandparents act like children they should be treated like children. Adult children should use simple rules: set up a schedule of visits, reward good [...]

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The Happiness Factor

January 11, 2010

News flash:  An 87-year-old, white-haired grandma enjoys old age!   
Betty Schneider, featured on the PBS “Rethinking Happiness” series last week, finds that a full social schedule, taking classes and spending time with her children and grandchildren adds up to a “wonderful” life.
 The series reported on research debunking the myth that we become unhappier as we grow [...]

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Weekly Reader 1.11.10

January 11, 2010

Don’t Call Me Grandma
 We’ve seen this story before but here’s another spin about grandparents who use foreign-language terms for grandma and grandpa.  Why do “Grandparents Put Aside Yesterday’s Labels”?
For many, it means connecting with their ethnic roots; for others, such words are just easy to pronounce or sound good. Some say the words are often [...]

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Happy New Year

January 4, 2010

 We’ve returned after a holiday hiatus and are catching up on m21 topics and trends.  There seems to be more and more news, magazine articles, books, and academic and survey research about parenting and adult children.  During the coming year we will cover these myriad sources. More important, we’d like to hear from you, our [...]

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